wings to fly
"I wish I had wings to fly and to see many joy and warmth of your baby so I am happy as your baby who has parents like you are"
Enjoy your new baby,
Enjoy your new baby,
for years will pass by,
and your new baby will grow before you know.
for years will pass by,
and your new baby will grow before you know.
we welcome your dear new baby
With love, we welcome your dear new baby to this world. Congratulations!
Hearty Congratulations
Hearty Congratulations on the new arrival !!
My best wishes are always with you...
My best wishes are always with you...
children are a form of God.
They say children are a form of God.
God has arrived in your home.
Congratulations!
I'm sure you are going to make amazing parents!
God has arrived in your home.
Congratulations!
I'm sure you are going to make amazing parents!
on the new angel.
I congratulate you on such a happy and blessed occasion.
May the new baby make us all proud.
Our blessings will ever shower on the new angel.
May the new baby make us all proud.
Our blessings will ever shower on the new angel.
You with all best wishes.
May this ....
Eid bring Fun, Eid bring Happiness.
Eid bring God Endless Blessings.
Eid bring fresh love ....
EID MUBARAK to You with all best wishes.
Eid bring Fun, Eid bring Happiness.
Eid bring God Endless Blessings.
Eid bring fresh love ....
EID MUBARAK to You with all best wishes.
Lonesome without u
Lonesome without u,
Each and every moments.
When i am alone
I close my eyes and think of u
N thoughts of ur love warms
Inside me and makes me smile.
miss you a lot.
eid mubarak.
Each and every moments.
When i am alone
I close my eyes and think of u
N thoughts of ur love warms
Inside me and makes me smile.
miss you a lot.
eid mubarak.
Assalamu Alaikum,
Assalamu Alaikum,
My best hearty wishes for RAMZAN,
May Allah accept our Fastings,
Prayer, Duwa and shower
His Mercy on us, Ameen...
RAMZAN MUBARAK.....
My best hearty wishes for RAMZAN,
May Allah accept our Fastings,
Prayer, Duwa and shower
His Mercy on us, Ameen...
RAMZAN MUBARAK.....
Ramazan Mubarak!
Ramazan Mubarak!
No matter weather is of autumn,
SPRING for KHAIR!
Collect and distribute more than enough.
May Allah favors
No matter weather is of autumn,
SPRING for KHAIR!
Collect and distribute more than enough.
May Allah favors
i'm Shabaan
i'm Shabaan ,
My Neighbor , Ramazan Told Me That
He's Coming Yo Your House Tomorrow With His Wife Roza And 3 Kids ...
Touba , Rehmat And Barkat ....
And They Will Return By
Wid EID Airways After 30 Days ..
Ramazan Mubarak
My Neighbor , Ramazan Told Me That
He's Coming Yo Your House Tomorrow With His Wife Roza And 3 Kids ...
Touba , Rehmat And Barkat ....
And They Will Return By
Wid EID Airways After 30 Days ..
Ramazan Mubarak
Memories of moments
Memories of moments celebrated together.......
Moments that have been attached in my heart, forever.......
Make me Miss You even more this Ramadan.
Hope this Ramadan brings in Good Fortune & Abounding Happiness
for you!
HAPPY Ramadan
Moments that have been attached in my heart, forever.......
Make me Miss You even more this Ramadan.
Hope this Ramadan brings in Good Fortune & Abounding Happiness
for you!
HAPPY Ramadan
Ramadan is the month in
Ramadan is the month in which was sent down the Qur'an,
as a guide to mankind, also clear Signs for guidance
and judgment between right and wrong.
So everyone of you who is present during that month should spend it in fasting.
as a guide to mankind, also clear Signs for guidance
and judgment between right and wrong.
So everyone of you who is present during that month should spend it in fasting.
As the crescent moon is sighted...
As the crescent moon is sighted...
And the holy month of Ramadan begins...
May Allah bless you with happiness
and
grace your home with warmth & peace!
And the holy month of Ramadan begins...
May Allah bless you with happiness
and
grace your home with warmth & peace!
Narrated Aisha:
Narrated Aisha:
Allah’s Apostle said,
Search for the Night of Qadr in
the odd nights of
the last ten days of Ramadan.
Allah’s Apostle said,
Search for the Night of Qadr in
the odd nights of
the last ten days of Ramadan.
May Divine Pour His blessings
Dear!
May Divine Pour His blessings on you
like rain throughout this holy month
recite Quran for blessings
b caring about your prayers
the Merciful will give u more than
your heart desires.
“Ramadan Mubarak”
May Divine Pour His blessings on you
like rain throughout this holy month
recite Quran for blessings
b caring about your prayers
the Merciful will give u more than
your heart desires.
“Ramadan Mubarak”
You share a love, that’s true
You share a love, that’s true
You’re committed to one another
And, one day, will say “I do”
Congratulations.
Wish You Happy Engagement.
You’re committed to one another
And, one day, will say “I do”
Congratulations.
Wish You Happy Engagement.
With warmest wishes
With warmest wishes
For the best in life
As you both look forward
To a shared future
Of love, friendship,
And the wonderful closeness
That is marriage.
Congratulations on your engagement
For the best in life
As you both look forward
To a shared future
Of love, friendship,
And the wonderful closeness
That is marriage.
Congratulations on your engagement
I wish you that quarrel,
I wish you that quarrel,
misunderstanding and misfortune
will never ever touch you.
Have a long and happy life together!
misunderstanding and misfortune
will never ever touch you.
Have a long and happy life together!
Love fills the moment,
Love fills the moment,
and the moment begins
eternity Love fills a lifetime,
and a lifetime begins this hour.
Congratulations on your engagement
and the moment begins
eternity Love fills a lifetime,
and a lifetime begins this hour.
Congratulations on your engagement
On ur engagement let the angels
On ur engagement let the angels sing
Now let clouds of angels fill the air
u may think ur pledge a mundane thing
One word of love and angels hover there!
Now let clouds of angels fill the air
u may think ur pledge a mundane thing
One word of love and angels hover there!
Your Engagement day
Your Engagement day is full of joy
Tomorrow you cannot see.
But one thing’s sure for the two of you
The best is yet to be.
Tomorrow you cannot see.
But one thing’s sure for the two of you
The best is yet to be.
To a very special couple
To a very special couple
Who make a perfect pair
This brings a wish for happiness
In the future you will share.
Who make a perfect pair
This brings a wish for happiness
In the future you will share.
As you exchange
As you exchange
your rings today
and enter a life
that’s bright and new
may God lock down
from heaven and
bless the two of you.
your rings today
and enter a life
that’s bright and new
may God lock down
from heaven and
bless the two of you.
My Heart Says That
My Heart Says That You Really Like Me..
My Eyes Say that U R Feeling Something 4 me
My Mind Says that You R Thinking of Me,
But I Want 2 Listen from Your Lips that ….
YOU LOVE ME..
My Eyes Say that U R Feeling Something 4 me
My Mind Says that You R Thinking of Me,
But I Want 2 Listen from Your Lips that ….
YOU LOVE ME..
As u both look forward
As u both look forward 2 the day that u are wed,
May ur love b a reminder of the joy that lies ahead.
Happy Engagement
May ur love b a reminder of the joy that lies ahead.
Happy Engagement
I dreamed of a wedding of
I dreamed of a wedding of elaborate elegance,
A church filled with family and friends.
I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for,
He said one that would make me his wife.
Happy Engagement.
A church filled with family and friends.
I asked him what kind of a wedding he wished for,
He said one that would make me his wife.
Happy Engagement.
Congratulation,
Congratulation,
Here’s wishing u lots of wonderful
moments of togetherness…
now & always.
Happy Engagement ….
Here’s wishing u lots of wonderful
moments of togetherness…
now & always.
Happy Engagement ….
We have a very good reason
We have a very good reason to share the spirit,
this season Please join with us,
in celebration as we are united in marriage.
WISH YOU HAPPY ENGAGEMENT
this season Please join with us,
in celebration as we are united in marriage.
WISH YOU HAPPY ENGAGEMENT
A future filled with happiness
A future filled with happiness
A special wish for you
Days filled with joy and happiness
And all your dreams come true.
Happy Engagement.
A special wish for you
Days filled with joy and happiness
And all your dreams come true.
Happy Engagement.
Engagement is the time between
Engagement is the time between
Being two and one.
It moves so fast the mountains shift
Before the survey’s done.
WISH YOU HAPPY ENGAGEMENT!
Being two and one.
It moves so fast the mountains shift
Before the survey’s done.
WISH YOU HAPPY ENGAGEMENT!
The Messenger of Allah
The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said:
“A believer never gets satisfied doing good until he reaches Jannah.”
[Tirmidhi] Masha’Allah! Beautiful Hadith
“A believer never gets satisfied doing good until he reaches Jannah.”
[Tirmidhi] Masha’Allah! Beautiful Hadith
Allah says:
Allah says: “Therefore remember me,
I will remember you and be grateful to me and do not reject faith.”
[Surah Al-Baqarah: 152]
I will remember you and be grateful to me and do not reject faith.”
[Surah Al-Baqarah: 152]
The Prophet (SAW) said:
The Prophet (SAW) said:
“The first thing
which will be judged among a persons deeds on the Day of Resurrection is
the prayer. If that is in good order, he will pass the test and
prosper, and if that is defective, he will fail the test and be a
loser.” (Tirmidhi)
“The first thing
which will be judged among a persons deeds on the Day of Resurrection is
the prayer. If that is in good order, he will pass the test and
prosper, and if that is defective, he will fail the test and be a
loser.” (Tirmidhi)
An important lesson
An important lesson from the Quran.
Allah the Exalted says,
“O you who believe:
let not some men deride others who might well be better than them;
and let not some women ridicule others who might well be better than they.
Do not belittle one another or insult one another with nicknames.” [Al-Quran 49:11]
Allah the Exalted says,
“O you who believe:
let not some men deride others who might well be better than them;
and let not some women ridicule others who might well be better than they.
Do not belittle one another or insult one another with nicknames.” [Al-Quran 49:11]
Narrated Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhu)
Narrated Ibn Abbas (rali Allahu anhu)
that the Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said:
“There are two blessings which many people lose:
health and free time for doing good.”
[The Book of Ar-Riqaq: Sahih Bukhari]
that the Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said:
“There are two blessings which many people lose:
health and free time for doing good.”
[The Book of Ar-Riqaq: Sahih Bukhari]
Nothing in this world
Nothing in this world Could ever be
As wonderful as the love You’ve given me
Your love makes my days so very bright,
just knowing you’re my darling wife(Husband).
Happy Wedding Anniversary
As wonderful as the love You’ve given me
Your love makes my days so very bright,
just knowing you’re my darling wife(Husband).
Happy Wedding Anniversary
How true my feelings were
How true my feelings were
I found out to be The best thing
in my life Was when you married me
Thank you my loving wife(loving Husband),
For the years we share I know one
thing for sure We make a wonderful pair.
I found out to be The best thing
in my life Was when you married me
Thank you my loving wife(loving Husband),
For the years we share I know one
thing for sure We make a wonderful pair.
Marriage is that
Marriage is that relation between
man and women in which
the Independence is Equal,
the Dependence mutual and
the Obligation Reciprocal”.
Best wishes for Happy Wedding Anniversary.
man and women in which
the Independence is Equal,
the Dependence mutual and
the Obligation Reciprocal”.
Best wishes for Happy Wedding Anniversary.
live in my heart n there 4 ever stay!
I LOVE U are words just three,
which mean so much on our ANNIVERSARY.
so this is what i want to say,
live in my heart n there 4 ever stay!
which mean so much on our ANNIVERSARY.
so this is what i want to say,
live in my heart n there 4 ever stay!
“Till Death Do Us Part”
If I Met You On Tomorrow I Would Still Give
You My Heart If You Should Say,
“Do You Still Love Me?” I”D Say,
“Till Death Do Us Part”
Happy Anniversary
You My Heart If You Should Say,
“Do You Still Love Me?” I”D Say,
“Till Death Do Us Part”
Happy Anniversary
Gods best in everything.
May you have all the joy your heart can hold,
All the smiles a day can bring,
All the blessings a life can unfold,
May you have Gods best in everything.
All the smiles a day can bring,
All the blessings a life can unfold,
May you have Gods best in everything.
wonderful love u share,
On this special day,
best wishes go to you,
that this wonderful love u share,
lasts your lifetime through.
best wishes go to you,
that this wonderful love u share,
lasts your lifetime through.
Which Is The Most Dangerous
Which Is The Most Dangerous
Letter In English ??
The Answer Is “W”…As In Wrong
“W” Is A Tension Generator…
Because All The Worries And Troubles Get Begins With “W”…
Who ? Why?
What ? When ?
Which ? Whom??
Where ?
War…
Wine…Whisky… Women…
Wealth
And Finally …….
You Have To Accept This :
WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT…….
WIFE…..
Letter In English ??
The Answer Is “W”…As In Wrong
“W” Is A Tension Generator…
Because All The Worries And Troubles Get Begins With “W”…
Who ? Why?
What ? When ?
Which ? Whom??
Where ?
War…
Wine…Whisky… Women…
Wealth
And Finally …….
You Have To Accept This :
WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT…….
WIFE…..
Guy Searching,
Guy Searching,
These Keywords on Google:
“How to Tackle A Wife..”
Google Search Result:
“Good Morning, Sir..!
Even We are Searching..
These Keywords on Google:
“How to Tackle A Wife..”
Google Search Result:
“Good Morning, Sir..!
Even We are Searching..
advance Ramzan mubarK”"
advance Ramzan mubaraK”"
..
+ ‘__//\\__’ +*
‘ *\ramzan //*’ +
*’+/ \’+’* +””
…”\\//”””*’*’
+
.
With BesT WisHes….!!
..
+ ‘__//\\__’ +*
‘ *\ramzan //*’ +
*’+/ \’+’* +””
…”\\//”””*’*’
+
.
With BesT WisHes….!!
The bunch of
The bunch of
*FLOWERS*
is being specially
delivered to you
&
Your family.
Just to say….“Ramzan Mubarak”
*FLOWERS*
is being specially
delivered to you
&
Your family.
Just to say….“Ramzan Mubarak”
I am coming to your house
I am coming to your house
2 give you
all types of happiness,success & joy
please
welcome me after a few minutes
you know I am yours….
Happy Ramadan...
2 give you
all types of happiness,success & joy
please
welcome me after a few minutes
you know I am yours….
Happy Ramadan...
May this Ramadan bring in you the most brightest
May this Ramadan bring in you
the most brightest and
choicest happiness and
love you have ever wished for
May the festival of lights brighten up
yours and your near and dear ones lives.
RAMADAN MUBARAK
the most brightest and
choicest happiness and
love you have ever wished for
May the festival of lights brighten up
yours and your near and dear ones lives.
RAMADAN MUBARAK
Love letter of kids
To pinky dear,
pinky..
i love u much my dearmy dream i c u everywhr u.i liv no.i com red color shrt 2mrw.
u lv i u com red frock.i wait down mango tre.u no com,i jump train.sure com...(*....*)
urs loving
Tin.
now pinky relies
TO Tin dear
Tin..
ur letr mummy see.papa beat me.beat me.beat me so many beat me.i cry.so no cum 2 mango tre.no jump train.i lv u.c anthr day.i no red frock.only green.u lv me u come green.
(*....)
ur sweety
pinky.
pinky..
i love u much my dearmy dream i c u everywhr u.i liv no.i com red color shrt 2mrw.
u lv i u com red frock.i wait down mango tre.u no com,i jump train.sure com...(*....*)
urs loving
Tin.
now pinky relies
TO Tin dear
Tin..
ur letr mummy see.papa beat me.beat me.beat me so many beat me.i cry.so no cum 2 mango tre.no jump train.i lv u.c anthr day.i no red frock.only green.u lv me u come green.
(*....)
ur sweety
pinky.
love a rose
anybody can love a rose
but no 1 can love a leaf
that is near to the rose,
dont love some one
who is beautiful
but love one who
makes ur life
beautiful.
but no 1 can love a leaf
that is near to the rose,
dont love some one
who is beautiful
but love one who
makes ur life
beautiful.
Allah blessings...
the great day
the 4getable moment...
day of eid ul fithr
allah blessings
4 u all..
EID MUBARAK.
the 4getable moment...
day of eid ul fithr
allah blessings
4 u all..
EID MUBARAK.
4ever friend
friends & blood has
only one different
blood enters in to
the hearts & flows out
but,friends enter in to
our hearts & stay inside
4ever friend...
only one different
blood enters in to
the hearts & flows out
but,friends enter in to
our hearts & stay inside
4ever friend...
how much love
love is not finding the right person
but creating the right relationship
its not how much love
we have the beginning
but how much love
we built until the end.
but creating the right relationship
its not how much love
we have the beginning
but how much love
we built until the end.
facing the change
"changing the face"
can change nothing ..
but
"facing the change"
can change everything..!!!!
can change nothing ..
but
"facing the change"
can change everything..!!!!
Every successfull person has
"Every successfull person has a painfull story"
"Every painfull story has a successfull ending"
Accept the pain
&
get ready to success..
"Every painfull story has a successfull ending"
Accept the pain
&
get ready to success..
May Ur future always shine...
Fly in the plane of Ambition
&
Land in the Airport of Success...
Luck is yours,Wish is mine...
May Ur future always shine...
Good Luck
&
Land in the Airport of Success...
Luck is yours,Wish is mine...
May Ur future always shine...
Good Luck
Best wishes for your exam.
To accomplish great things,
We must not only act,
But also dream,
Not only plan but also believe,
Best wishes for your exam.
We must not only act,
But also dream,
Not only plan but also believe,
Best wishes for your exam.
BE HAPPY FOREVER
In our life
happiness is more important than smile
cause smile comes from lips
but happiness comes from the heart
so
BE HAPPY FOREVER
happiness is more important than smile
cause smile comes from lips
but happiness comes from the heart
so
BE HAPPY FOREVER
Worrying Doesn't Reduce Yesterdays Sorrows,
Worrying Doesn't Reduce Yesterdays Sorrows,
But It Empties Todays Strength".
So DONT WORRY,
BE HAPPY & Make Others Happy.
But It Empties Todays Strength".
So DONT WORRY,
BE HAPPY & Make Others Happy.
Friendship is about bringing out the positive
Friendship is about bringing out the positive
when everything seems negative...
being accepted for who you are...
being able to pic up right where you left off...
sharing, talking, and laughing...Friendship is about us,
and for that I'm grateful.
And I hope you have the best birthday ever, friend!
Wish u happy birthday.........
when everything seems negative...
being accepted for who you are...
being able to pic up right where you left off...
sharing, talking, and laughing...Friendship is about us,
and for that I'm grateful.
And I hope you have the best birthday ever, friend!
Wish u happy birthday.........
Friendship!
"Perusa oru sandai
but
Kuttiya oru sorry"
''Chinnadha oru kovam
but
Sweeta oru siripu"
"Kodumaiya oru pirivu
but
Inimaya oru sandhippu"
Idhu thanga Friendship!
but
Kuttiya oru sorry"
''Chinnadha oru kovam
but
Sweeta oru siripu"
"Kodumaiya oru pirivu
but
Inimaya oru sandhippu"
Idhu thanga Friendship!
The next generation LKG song..
The next generation LKG
song..
Drinking Drinking
little bear.
How i wonder what a beer.
Quarter rates are
up so high.
Drink a peg with
chicken fry.
song..
Drinking Drinking
little bear.
How i wonder what a beer.
Quarter rates are
up so high.
Drink a peg with
chicken fry.
I wish you Health..
I wish you Health...
So you may enjoy each day in comfort.
I wish you the Love of friends and family...
And Peace within your heart.
I wish you the Beauty of nature...
That you may enjoy the work of God.
I wish you Wisdom to choose priorities.. .
For those things that really matter in life.
I wish you Generosity so you may share...
All good things that come to you.
I wish you Happiness and Joy...
And Blessings for the New Year.
I wish you the best of everything.. .
That you so well deserve.
HAPPY AND HEALTHY
NEW YEAR
So you may enjoy each day in comfort.
I wish you the Love of friends and family...
And Peace within your heart.
I wish you the Beauty of nature...
That you may enjoy the work of God.
I wish you Wisdom to choose priorities.. .
For those things that really matter in life.
I wish you Generosity so you may share...
All good things that come to you.
I wish you Happiness and Joy...
And Blessings for the New Year.
I wish you the best of everything.. .
That you so well deserve.
HAPPY AND HEALTHY
NEW YEAR
Its like a new Sunrise.
Its like a new Sunrise... of Hope, of Prosperity, of Happiness
Its like a new Beginning... of Thoughts, of Words, of Actions
Its like a new Day... of Energy, of Strength, of Ideas
Its like a Bunch of whole New things... of Prayers, of Friends, and of Love
Have a NEW YEAR..
Its like a new Beginning... of Thoughts, of Words, of Actions
Its like a new Day... of Energy, of Strength, of Ideas
Its like a Bunch of whole New things... of Prayers, of Friends, and of Love
Have a NEW YEAR..
Success is நாட்...
Success is not the key to happiness.
Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing,
you will be happy and successful ...
Have a Successful Year ahead !!!
Happiness is the key to success.
If you love what you are doing,
you will be happy and successful ...
Have a Successful Year ahead !!!
Love has...
Love has features which pierce all hearts, he wears a bandage
which conceals the faults of those beloved. He has wings,
he comes quickly and flies away the same.
* Voltaire*
which conceals the faults of those beloved. He has wings,
he comes quickly and flies away the same.
* Voltaire*
Sympathy constitutes
Sympathy constitutes friendship; but in love there is a sort of antipathy,
or opposing passion. Each strives to be the other,
and both together make up one whole.
* Samuel Taylor Coleridge*
or opposing passion. Each strives to be the other,
and both together make up one whole.
* Samuel Taylor Coleridge*
love is ....
You say that love is nonsense.... I tell you it is no such thing.
For weeks and months it is a steady physical pain, an ache about the heart,
never leaving one, by night or by day; a long strain on one's
nerves like toothache or rheumatism, not intolerable at any one instant,
but exhausting by its steady drain on the strength.
* Henry Adams*
For weeks and months it is a steady physical pain, an ache about the heart,
never leaving one, by night or by day; a long strain on one's
nerves like toothache or rheumatism, not intolerable at any one instant,
but exhausting by its steady drain on the strength.
* Henry Adams*
keep smiling
Smile is the Lighting system of a Face,
Cooling system of Heart,
Boosting system of Mind..
So keep smiling always!!
Cooling system of Heart,
Boosting system of Mind..
So keep smiling always!!
Life ends when u stop dreaming,
Life ends when u stop dreaming,
hope ends when u stop believing,
love ends when u stop caring..
Friendship ends when u stop sharing..
so start sharing with whom ever u consider a friend
hope ends when u stop believing,
love ends when u stop caring..
Friendship ends when u stop sharing..
so start sharing with whom ever u consider a friend
New Year
Golden New Year...
A golden new year has arrived,
and anything is possible.
It can be a time of success,
a time of achievement,
a time of happiness
a time when dreams come true.
What the year becomes
is up to you.
All you have to do,
is steer your ship
toward your goal,
and hold true to
what's in your heart
even come the stormy weather.
And should worry and self-doubt
rattle your sails and darken the day
simply let a gentle wind
carry your troubles away.
Above all, no matter where
the year leads you,
no matter what you do,
never stop believing you can succeed,
never stop believing in you.
A golden new year has arrived,
and anything is possible.
It can be a time of success,
a time of achievement,
a time of happiness
a time when dreams come true.
What the year becomes
is up to you.
All you have to do,
is steer your ship
toward your goal,
and hold true to
what's in your heart
even come the stormy weather.
And should worry and self-doubt
rattle your sails and darken the day
simply let a gentle wind
carry your troubles away.
Above all, no matter where
the year leads you,
no matter what you do,
never stop believing you can succeed,
never stop believing in you.
The moment you are in TENSION
The moment you are in TENSION
You will lose your ATTENTION
Then you are in total CONFUSION
and you'll feel IRRITATION
This may spoil your personal RELATIONS
Untimately, you won't get COOPERATION
And get things into COMPLICATION.
You will lose your ATTENTION
Then you are in total CONFUSION
and you'll feel IRRITATION
This may spoil your personal RELATIONS
Untimately, you won't get COOPERATION
And get things into COMPLICATION.
Patience is the ability
Patience is the ability to idle your motor
when you feel like stripping your gears.
when you feel like stripping your gears.
If you fill your heart
If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday
and the worries of tomorrow,
you have no today to be thankful for.
and the worries of tomorrow,
you have no today to be thankful for.
Golden rules
Golden rules for... finding your life partner by Dov Heller, M.A.
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake.
Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!
If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: "We're in love"; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date.
Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound "not politically correct", there's a profound truth here.
Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage . When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: "You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone"; You need a lot more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION 1:
Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.
Two things can happen in a marriage:
(1) You can grow together, or
(2) you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION ..2:
Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust - i.e. trust that I won't get "punished"; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION ..3:
Is he/she a mensch?
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as "someone who is always striving to be good and do the right ";. So ask about your significant other:
What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic?
Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world:
(1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and
(2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in
life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4:
How does he/she treat other people? The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the
ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self- absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following:
How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them?
You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.
QUESTION ..5:
Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to "improve"; them after they're married.
As a colleague of mine puts it: "You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse" If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective...
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance..
It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know, or appreciate you?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states,
"Before you get married, keep both eyes open,and after you marry, close one eye";>
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life"; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. SOME GET AWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN
7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,etc.)
8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake.
Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!
If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say: "We're in love"; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date.
Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound "not politically correct", there's a profound truth here.
Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage . When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: "You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone"; You need a lot more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION 1:
Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.
Two things can happen in a marriage:
(1) You can grow together, or
(2) you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION ..2:
Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust - i.e. trust that I won't get "punished"; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION ..3:
Is he/she a mensch?
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as "someone who is always striving to be good and do the right ";. So ask about your significant other:
What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic?
Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world:
(1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and
(2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in
life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4:
How does he/she treat other people? The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the
ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self- absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following:
How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them?
You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.
QUESTION ..5:
Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to "improve"; them after they're married.
As a colleague of mine puts it: "You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse" If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't do your homework.
Another perspective...
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance..
It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know, or appreciate you?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states,
"Before you get married, keep both eyes open,and after you marry, close one eye";>
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life"; you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. SOME GET AWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN
7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,etc.)
8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
Good Morning…
True Friends Are Like Mornings:
You Can't Have Them For The Whole Day,
But You Can Be Sure They Will Be There
When You Wake Up The Other Day.
Good Morning…!!!
You Can't Have Them For The Whole Day,
But You Can Be Sure They Will Be There
When You Wake Up The Other Day.
Good Morning…!!!
My wish.
My wish............
Dont miss a kiss..
Dont kiss a miss...
Dont miss a wish.......
Dont wish a miss....
As a kissssssss.........
This is my wish.....
Dont miss a kiss..
Dont kiss a miss...
Dont miss a wish.......
Dont wish a miss....
As a kissssssss.........
This is my wish.....
Without Love
Without Love -- dayz are
"Sadday,
moanday,
tearsday,
wasteday,
thirstday,
frightday,
shatterday...
so be in Luv everyday...
Wish u a Happy Valentine's Day
"Sadday,
moanday,
tearsday,
wasteday,
thirstday,
frightday,
shatterday...
so be in Luv everyday...
Wish u a Happy Valentine's Day
Friendship is shared
Friendship is shared
heart 2 heart
which even miles apart
and its never departs
its a bright light
if we think
its right it last
very long
hve nice day.
heart 2 heart
which even miles apart
and its never departs
its a bright light
if we think
its right it last
very long
hve nice day.
friendship
where the bond is
very strong
friendship is
very high
which will never
die it
never bend it
never end it
very strong
friendship is
very high
which will never
die it
never bend it
never end it
keep smiling.
Smiles r like birds,
they fly from face to face.
may ur lips give them better nest,
so that they can stay there
4ever so keep smiling.
they fly from face to face.
may ur lips give them better nest,
so that they can stay there
4ever so keep smiling.
Love is sweet poison
Love is sweet poison: ..
Do not consume without your beloved's advise ..
and keep out of reach of children ..
and keep it in cool and dark place
Do not consume without your beloved's advise ..
and keep out of reach of children ..
and keep it in cool and dark place
spare parts.
When time comes for u to give
ur heart to someone,
make sure u select someone
who will never break ur heart,
cuz broken hearts has never spare parts.
ur heart to someone,
make sure u select someone
who will never break ur heart,
cuz broken hearts has never spare parts.
Makes Life Beautiful
Life ends when you stop dreaming,
hope ends when you stop believing
and love ends when you stop caring.
So dream hope and love...
Makes Life Beautiful
hope ends when you stop believing
and love ends when you stop caring.
So dream hope and love...
Makes Life Beautiful
Love Easy to say...
Love Easy to say...
Difficult to stay...
Beautiful to feel...
Difficult to deal...
Difficulty is a part of Life...
But That's the reason...
Why Girlfriend is never a wife?
Difficult to stay...
Beautiful to feel...
Difficult to deal...
Difficulty is a part of Life...
But That's the reason...
Why Girlfriend is never a wife?
stealing my heart
Court order,
U R accused of stealing my heart
& hijacking my feelings
and U R now sentenced 2
B my lover 4 life
U R accused of stealing my heart
& hijacking my feelings
and U R now sentenced 2
B my lover 4 life
love makes all things easy
Faith makes all things possible,
love makes all things easy,
hopes makes all things work,
but ur gorgeous smile brings
all faith,luv & hope in me!
love makes all things easy,
hopes makes all things work,
but ur gorgeous smile brings
all faith,luv & hope in me!
I LOVE YOU...
this funny that
all of the souls in this worlds
knows how i feel for you..
but you it seems that ur the only one
who doesnt have the love..
i just wanna tell you
what everybody knows and thats
I LOVE YOU...
all of the souls in this worlds
knows how i feel for you..
but you it seems that ur the only one
who doesnt have the love..
i just wanna tell you
what everybody knows and thats
I LOVE YOU...
If you love someone,
If you love someone,
put their name in a circle
instead of a heart,
because hearts can break,
but circles go on forever.
put their name in a circle
instead of a heart,
because hearts can break,
but circles go on forever.
my heart's made 2 luv u,
my heart's made 2 luv u,
my lips are made 2 kis u,
my eyes r made 2 c u,
my hands r made 2 hold u .....
every part of me wants u,
may be bcoz i was made just 4 u!!
my lips are made 2 kis u,
my eyes r made 2 c u,
my hands r made 2 hold u .....
every part of me wants u,
may be bcoz i was made just 4 u!!
L....ove I....s N....ot a G....ame
D....ear
A....lways
R....emember
L....ove
I....s
N....ot
a
G....ame
A....lways
R....emember
L....ove
I....s
N....ot
a
G....ame
Don't love the person who enjoys with u...
"Don't love the person who enjoys with u...
Just love the person who suffers without u. Because,
The pain of love can never be defined..."
Just love the person who suffers without u. Because,
The pain of love can never be defined..."
The Value Of Time
To realize the value of 1year,
Ask one who failed in an exam.
1mnth,
Ask one who has not received his salary.
1week,
Ask one who stayed in relative's home.
1day,
Ask one who is fasting.
1hour,
Ask one who is waiting for his lover.
1minute,
Ask one who missed his bus.
1second,
Ask one who just escaped from the accident.
Every moment is a treasure.
Yesterday is a history
Tomorrow is a mistery, but
Today is a gift. So,
We call it
'PRESENT'
Enjoy it...
Ask one who failed in an exam.
1mnth,
Ask one who has not received his salary.
1week,
Ask one who stayed in relative's home.
1day,
Ask one who is fasting.
1hour,
Ask one who is waiting for his lover.
1minute,
Ask one who missed his bus.
1second,
Ask one who just escaped from the accident.
Every moment is a treasure.
Yesterday is a history
Tomorrow is a mistery, but
Today is a gift. So,
We call it
'PRESENT'
Enjoy it...
Life is life-live it.
Life is an opportunity-benefit from it.
Life is a beauty-admire it.
Life is a bliss-taste it.
Life is a dream-realize it.
Life is a challenge-meet it.
Life is a duty-complete it.
Life is a game-play it.
Life is a promise-fulfill it.
Life is a song-sing it.
Life is a challenge-accept it.
Life is a sea of sorrows-overcome it.
Life is a fight-face it.
Life is a journey-cover it.
Life is full of happiness-enjoy it.
Life is a wish-get it.
Life is a book-read it.
Life is a precious-save it.
Life is a puzzle-solve it.
Life is question-answer it.
Life is a road-take it.
Life is a diary-fill it.
Life is a struggle-accept it.
Life is a tragedy-confront it.
Life is an adventure-dare it.
Life is luck-make it.
Life is too precious-don't destroy it.
Life is life-live it.
Life is a beauty-admire it.
Life is a bliss-taste it.
Life is a dream-realize it.
Life is a challenge-meet it.
Life is a duty-complete it.
Life is a game-play it.
Life is a promise-fulfill it.
Life is a song-sing it.
Life is a challenge-accept it.
Life is a sea of sorrows-overcome it.
Life is a fight-face it.
Life is a journey-cover it.
Life is full of happiness-enjoy it.
Life is a wish-get it.
Life is a book-read it.
Life is a precious-save it.
Life is a puzzle-solve it.
Life is question-answer it.
Life is a road-take it.
Life is a diary-fill it.
Life is a struggle-accept it.
Life is a tragedy-confront it.
Life is an adventure-dare it.
Life is luck-make it.
Life is too precious-don't destroy it.
Life is life-live it.
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